The Choice: Seasons of Loss and Renewal
After a Father's Decision to Die
Judy Brown
Synopsis
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Brown, an organizational consultant dealing primarily with change, tells the story of her
father, Stanley Ball, a farmer and agricultural agent who, diagnosed with pancreatic cancer,
obtained the aid of Dr. Jack Kevorkian in an assisted suicide that took place on February 4,
1993. She points out that Michigan law prevented her and her brother from talking with friends
before her father's passing, and she wonders why discussion of assisted suicide is so often
mean-spirited and harsh. She avers that assisted suicide always appears different to those
personally involved in it and that every situation is unique and all of those involved must
work through its various aspects. Moreover, she does not intend her father's death to be
taken as a model. Rather, she counsels caring, listening, and being open, nonjudgmental,
and willing to accept change in oneself and others as elementary in dealing with the assisted-suicide
decision.
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