Don't Divorce Us!: Kids' Advice to Divorcing Parents
Rita Sommers-Flanagan, Chelsea Elander,
Intimate, humorous, touching and wise advice on divorce and
its consequences from those most affected by it - the children of divorce. Based on interviews with
hundreds of children and adult children of divorce, Don't Divorce Us! provides valuable
insights on the steps to take to minimize or avoid the pain that divorce can bring to children.
Rita Sommers-Flanagan, Ph.D. and John Sommers-Flanagan, Ph.D., are experienced counselors who have
seen first-hand the effects divorce can have on children. For this book they have collaborated with
Chelsea Elander, a grown child of divorce herself, to weave often-poignant interviews, stories,
essays and artwork from children of divorce, with proven advice on the ways parents can bring
children safely through the divorce process and the life that follows. The book provides sensible
strategies for coping with the challenges of double-households, long-distance parenting, ex-spouses,
parental dating, step-parenting and the many other potentially stressful issues of divorce. For any
parents who are considering divorce, are in the divorce process, or have recently divorced, this
book offers valuable insights into helping children through the experience.