Goodbye, Friend: Healing Wisdom for Anyone
Who Has Ever Lost a Pet
Gary Kowalski
Synopsis
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After Gary Kowalski, author and the minister of Burlington Vermont's
Unitarian Universalist church, completed his new book, Goodbye, Friend, on dealing with losing
your pet, his own elderly dog, Chinook, died. In his first book, The Souls of Animals, Kowalski
wrote: "My own wise friend is my dog. He has deep knowledge to impart." Apparently, Chinook did
his good work up until the end. Kowalski's new book is full of sound, compassionate advice to
get you through the loss of your pet(s). Included are ideas for rituals and ceremonies, spiritual
guidance and readings and poems to use for solace. The author's voice is a soothing one, not
surprising for a minister whose job it is to be wise and reflective. The book also addresses
animals' grieving; their life spans; their growth, illnesses and needs. These are similar to ours:
need to eat, to exercise, to sleep, to have fun, to enjoy companionship and to expect routine.
Kowalski includes advice on how to take care of yourself after the death of a pet and the
importance of honesty when talking with children about this event. Kowalski's book is not
only useful for healing when a good friend dies, but also reasserts his primary message:
that animals are important, that "pets are not petty," that they deserve our respect and
our kind care. As Kowalski writes, "Animals enrich our lives in countless ways, with their
playfulness, their tranquility, their constancy, and their love..." This book will help
readers mourn and remember them well.
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