No Time to Say Goodbye:
Surviving the Suicide of a Loved One
Carla Fine
Synopsis
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Suicide would appear to be the last taboo. Even incest is now discussed freely in the
popular media, but the suicide of a loved one is still an act most people are unable
to talk about--or even admit to their closest family and friends. This is just one of
the many painful and paralyzing truths author Carla Fine discovered when her husband,
a successful young physician, took his own life in December 1989. And being unable to
speak openly and honestly about the cause of her pain made it all the more difficult
for her to survive. With No Time to Say Goodbye, she brings suicide survival from
the darkness into the light, speaking frankly and with compassion about the overwhelming
feelings of confusion, guilt, shame, anger and loneliness that are shared by all survivors.
Drawing on her own experience and on conversations with many other survivors--as well as on
the knowledge of counselors and mental health professionals--Carla Fine offers a strong
helping hand and invaluable guidance to the thousands of husbands and wives, mothers and
fathers, sisters and brothers, friends and lovers who are left behind each year, struggling
to make sense of an act that seems to them senseless, and to pick up the pieces of their own
shattered lives. And, perhaps most important, she allows them to see that they are not alone
in their feelings of grief and despair. Her resource section, listing organizations and
survivor groups throughout the United States and Canada, as well as her bibliography of
further reading, will, in themselves, provide invaluable information and support.
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